Proposed Rules ArchivesGR 43 - Personal Pronouns
GR 9 Cover Sheet Proponents: Beverly K. Tsai (she/they) Erin L.
Lennon, Supreme Court Clerk J. Denise Diskin,
Executive Director, QLaw Foundation Dana Savage
(she/her), President Elect, QLaw Association of
Washington Ada Danelo
(they/she), Vice President, QLaw Association of
Washington Adrien Leavitt Danny Waxwing Spokesperson: Beverly
K. Tsai (she/they) Purpose: Our
courts and court filing practices should establish rules and procedures that
strive to be inclusive. This proposed new General Rule 43 is intended to provide
a signing attorney or party with the option to identify their personal pronouns[1] in the signature block and
title page of filed documents. Under this new rule, the preparer may also
designate any person’s personal pronouns in the text of the document. Giving
people the opportunity to self-identify their personal pronouns in court
filings will help our courts be more inclusive by aiming to minimize
misgendering, transphobia, trans-exclusion, and anti-LGBTQIA+ experiences in our
courts. Personal
pronouns are related to the person’s gender identity. Gender identity is a
person’s internal sense of their own gender. While a person’s sex is a
biological identity assigned at birth, gender identity is unique. A person’s
gender identity may be male, female, both, or neither.[2] Some people are
“cisgender,” meaning their gender identity matches the sex they were assigned at
birth, male or female.[3] Some people are “transgender,”
meaning their gender identity is different than what they were assigned at
birth. Some people’s gender identity may be “gender-expansive,” meaning they do
not identify as exclusively male or female. For example, a person may be
“gender-fluid” or “genderqueer” if they do not identify with one gender or the
other and instead have an unfixed gender identity. A “non-binary” or “gender
nonconforming” person may identify as neither male nor female, both male and
female, as a third gender, or something else. In some Native American cultures,
people may identify as “two-spirit,” meaning they identify as neither male nor female
but as a different gender and fulfill a different gender role in their
communities.[4]
Gender
expression is the external appearance of a person’s gender identity.[5] This includes, among many
other characteristics, their appearance, mannerisms, clothing, hair, makeup,
and voice. A person’s gender expression may be described using words such as
masculine, feminine, or androgynous. A person’s gender expression may or may
not conform to expressions that are typically associated with a certain gender identity
or sexual orientation. A
person’s personal pronouns are how that person wishes to be addressed aside
from their name, and personal pronouns are as expansive and unique as gender
identity. While they are sometimes related to gender identity, personal
pronouns do not necessarily indicate a person’s gender identity, nor does a
person’s gender expression necessarily indicate their personal pronouns. Personal
pronouns are unique to each individual person and they are often very important
to their personal identity. “Using someone’s correct personal pronouns is a way
to respect them and create an inclusive environment, just as using a person’s
name can be a way to respect them.”[6] “She/her/hers” and
“he/him/his” are some commonly used pronouns that are often associated with the
female or male gender, respectively. “They/them/theirs”[7] are gender-neutral
pronouns that some people use, and they are also often used if someone’s
personal pronouns are not known. Some people may use more than one personal pronoun,[8] and some may not use
pronouns at all.[9]
There are no rules about “right” or “wrong” personal pronouns except for what a
person decides for themselves. As
a society, people often make assumptions about a person’s gender identity and personal
pronouns based on their appearance, name, or gender expression. These
assumptions are often based on gender stereotypes and gender norms. Gender
identity is an internal sense of self, and we cannot know a person’s personal
pronouns just by looking at them. Therefore, guessing a person’s personal pronouns
based on assumptions can be very harmful and can create unsafe environments. Even
if it is unintentional, using the wrong personal pronoun to refer to somebody
can make them feel disrespected, invalidated, and dismissed, and it alienates
people for not conforming to the gender-binary and expectations based on
stereotypes. This results in bias and discrimination. This
proposed new General Rule 43 creates an opportunity for a person to offer their
personal pronouns and also provides an opportunity for others to learn how to
respectfully address them. Providing opportunities for people to identify how
they wished to be addressed in addition to their name will help prevent others
from acting on assumptions and using incorrect pronouns. It will also help
minimize the burden of having to correct someone after they use the wrong
pronouns to address someone. This proposed new General Rule 43 will allow court
staff, clerks, justices and judges, and other parties and attorneys to be aware
of and use the correct personal pronouns in communication, documents,
discussions, and oral argument. It will improve our courts by helping to create
an environment that is welcoming and respectful of people and their identities. The
proposed new General Rule 43 provides a signing attorney or party the option to
indicate their personal pronouns in the signature block and title page of filed
documents. If the person so chooses, they can list their personal pronouns
along with their name, address, telephone number, and Washington State Bar
Association membership number in the signature block and title page of filed
documents. A person’s personal pronouns may also be designated in the text of
the document. This is not limited to attorneys or signing parties. Under this
proposed new rule, providing personal pronouns is not mandatory, but merely
optional. A permissive rule such as this will provide opportunities for those
who wish to disclose their personal pronouns without pressuring those who may
be uncomfortable or not ready to disclose their personal pronouns. It also allows
the person to write in their personal pronouns and does not limit a person to the
more commonly used pronouns. Hearing: The proponent does not believe a
public hearing is necessary. Expedited Consideration: The proponent
does not believe that expedited consideration is necessary. [1] In this cover
sheet, we call them “personal pronouns” to reflect the fact that they refer to
a unique and individual person. MyPronouns.org,
What and Why,
www.mypronouns.org/what-and-why. We do not call them “gender pronouns” because
they do not necessarily reflect or indicate a person’s gender, and we also do
not call them “preferred pronouns” because pronouns are part of a person’s
identity, not a preference. GLSEN, Pronoun
Guide, https://www.glsen.org/activity/pronouns-guide-glsen. [2] Human Rights Campaign, Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity
Definitions, https://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity-terminology-and-definitions?utm_source=GS&utm_medium=AD&utm_campaign=BPI-HRC-Grant&utm_content=454887071989&utm_term=gender%20identity&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI7seHg_2z8gIVAz6tBh0v8wolEAAYASAAEgKHM_D_BwE. [3] Human Rights Campaign, Glossary of Terms,
https://www.hrc.org/resources/glossary-of-terms. [4] Indian Health Service, Two-Spirit,
https://www.ihs.gov/lgbt/health/twospirit/. [5] Human Rights Campaign, supra note 2. [6] MyPronouns.org, supra note 1. [7] Other examples of
personal pronouns are “ze/zem/zir,” and “xe/xem/xer.” These are known as
“neopronouns.” Shige Sajurai, Neopronouns,
MyPronouns.org,
www.mypronouns.org/neopronouns. [8] Paige Cohen, My Pronouns Are She/They. What Are Yours?
Harvard Business Review (June 15,
2021), https://hbr.org/2021/06/my-pronouns-are-she-they-what-are-yours. [9] Sam Krauss, What do you do when someone doesn’t use any
pronouns? PFLAG, https://pflag.org/blog/what-do-you-do-when-someone-doesn%E2%80%99t-use-any-pronouns. |
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